Earl J. Van Inwegen III - May 12, 2015 - Obituary

Happy New Year.. into 2018.. and life is moving forward... I want you to know that you are always a thought away... and I KNOW.. some of the noises.. the "bumps in the night" at the house are you... poking me to let me know you are keeping an eye on things... some days I am overwhelmed with sadness.. and still shed a few tears.. look around.. and think .. what would E think of this.. or that... but I also know that you are holding court up there.. being your healthy , happy witty self... and probably driving Mom and Dad a little crazy. I need you all to keep watching over me... and I am OK with the curve balls you throw every once in a while. xo me

Posted by Sue VanInwegen - North Port, FL - Spouse January 09, 2018

2 Years today... feels like yestetrday.. and a million years ago all at the same time. Alex has since left me ...to join you, Murray, Mom and Dad.. Life is moving forward.. but you are always just a thought away. Bonnie , Jim and I are taking good care of each other. I hope you all continue to watch over us... and cheer us on to the next adventure life has in store for us. love and miss you... me.

Posted by Sue VanInwegen - North Port, FL - Spouse May 12, 2017

It's hard to believe it has been a year since we gathered to lay you to rest, with your beloved Parents. We are watching over Sue just as you would expect of her Friends & Family. "Rest In Peace, Earl....We got this".

Posted by Theresa Leverich - Venice, FL - Acquaintance May 11, 2016

Thoughts & prayers to you Sue on this one year anniversary.

Posted by Chris Masson - North Port - Friend May 11, 2016

My memories are a little different than most .we used to meet out doing karaoke.Earl was one-of-a-kind and I could look at him and know exactly what he was thinking.never a doll moment with Earl in the room.wanted dead or alive...

Posted by Kurt Hundeland - Middletown, NY - Friend May 11, 2016

one year. I know you are watching over me.. and throwing me a curve ball now and again.. just to keep me on my toes.
I love you.. and miss you so very much xoxo Suzanne Denise.

Posted by Sue VanInwegen - North Port, FL - Spouse May 11, 2016

Thank you for the wonderful entries. They are a great comfort to our family. I love that some are memories that go back Long before I met him. Much love to all..

Posted by Sue VanInwegen - North Port, FL - Spouse May 27, 2015

I remember when i was around four, Aunt Sue, and Uncle earl were staying at a hotel in orange city. My mother had allowed me to go up to their room with my older brother, I remember walking in and seeing my uncle. Or even the time when my brother was four and was opening their present on Christmas and was too distracted by the tv he said "Aunt Earl!. i can't remember any other memory of me with him, i am now 12 and devastated of his passing, But now he is in a place better than anything in this world. May God bless Aunt Sue and Uncle Earl at this time

Love and miss you all,
John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.

Posted by Raquel Valle - deltona, FL - niece May 23, 2015

Sue, keep the good & love in your heart and leave the rest behind. Will always be here for you. You are truly the strongest lady I know and this's too will pass. No more tears just love & hugs from me to you.

Posted by Chris Masson - North Port, FL - Friends May 23, 2015

Sue,I never had the pleasure of meeting you. Earl was a great guy. I worked with him at Fulton Chevrolet back in the 80's .He kept everyone in stitches. Rest in peace my friend. I'm sure Walter and you are out cruisin together right now.

Posted by Keith Moran - Middletown, NY - old friend May 20, 2015

To Sue and all of Earl's family, we have never met. I wish the best for you all in this difficult time. Earl touched a lot of people's lives throughout his years with his talents and friendship, most of all with his humor and sharp wit. He was a joy to be around. I am privileged to have called him my friend. When a good man like Earl passes those of us that loved him have to try a little harder to fill the void which is left. There just aren't enough people in the world like Earl. He will be sorely missed. Again, Sue, we are so sorry for your loss. As Earl used to joke with me, cut the cards

Sincerely,

Keith Parfitt

Posted by Keith Parfitt - Mount Hope, NY - Old Friend May 20, 2015

Sincere Condolences to Earls Family. I have not seen Earl for probably 35 years, but will never forget the times we jammed in Earls garage with Harold & Todd or Drag Racing on Wawayanda Ave. Rest in Peace my friend.

Posted by Mark Connoly - Middletown, NY - Childhood friend - Drummer May 20, 2015

Rest in peace Earl. It was a rough few years for both you and Sue. May you eternally enjoy your music and send a few songs Sue's way. To my big sister, you are one of the strongest people I know. May you find comfort in knowing Earl is well again. May God watch over both of you and send outrageous happiness your way. Love and Prayers

Posted by Connie - Goshen, NY - sister in law May 18, 2015

In death as in Life, hope, prayers, and love still follow the Van Inwegen Family. In life, Earl & Sue fought for Earl's ability to survive. With his death, they each have earned the peace, the comfort, and even more of the love they've been shown by both their Families & Friends. Rest at Peace, Earl....and Sue, draw your strength from those around you when needed.....you have each earned it!

Posted by Theresa Leverich - Venice, FL - Friend of Spouse May 17, 2015

We never met, but I know you through Suzanne. "Rock on" as her guardian angel. You live in her heart.

Posted by Gwen Arnaud - Atlanta, GA - Friend May 17, 2015

I haven't seen my uncle since the 70's. I mostly remember going to his parents house (my grandparents) and seeing his model cars. My grandparents were kinda uncomfortable letting me mess with them, but I was golden boy so they let me. I remember him coming home once and being a little annoyed that I was messing with his stuff, but he blew it off and went to his room. Good enough memory I guess....definitely Van Inwegen style...

Posted by Michael Van Inwegen - Puyallup, WA - nephew May 17, 2015

Oh Gunk this is gonna be really hard but I'll try to get it right. You were the funnest...wait wait wait...the coolest...wait wait wait...the bestest...wait wait wait...I got it you were all of those but most of all you were my Gunkie and I will always be your baby girl. I'll miss our crazy talks on the phone and your awesome stories. Have a BBQ, start a wiffle ball game, say hi to Nanny, Grandpy & Uncle Kenny. Know that you will forever be in my heart. Thanks for the memories & thank you for being my Gunkie.
Love you bunches,
Your Lori

Posted by Lori Waterman - New Hampton, NY - Niece May 16, 2015

I haven't seen you in years but remember when you a
And Sue got married. You made her happy. Sorry for your struggle with lif . Now resting with your mom and dad . Suzy
Q. Be strong. Love u. Earl RIP

Posted by Joanne Antonucci - Brooklyn, NY - cousin through marriage May 16, 2015

Earl...We shared some great times.Seems just like yesterday we were singing it up at the Rusty Nail and smiles.Wanted dead , alive..Stairway to heaven..You could work a room like no other.Never a dull moment when Earl was in the room.Really one of a kind and sadly missed.Sue I am so sorry..

Posted by Kurt Hundeland - wurtsboro, NY - friend May 16, 2015

I love you. I am so lost and sad and keep expecting you to walk through the door at any moment. I pray that you are at peace.. healthy and happy.. reunited with Mom and Dad. All of your suffering has come to an end.. I will miss you everyday for the rest of my life.. please be my guardian angel. You are very loved and missed by your family and friends.. we are all helping each other through our sadness but there will always be a hole in my heart. I love you

Posted by Sue VanInwegen - north port, FL - wife May 16, 2015

I will miss you forever Baby Boy.I did not want to see you go and lord knows you did not want to leave us.My comfort now is the thought that you are in the loving embrace of Mom and Dad.You left me with so many memories.May the music play on for you til I see you again.I love you so much.
Bonnie(Big Sis}

Posted by Bonnie Grispo - N.Port, FL - sister May 15, 2015

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